One day, a wise professor asked his students this one question.
"Why do people shout when they are angry?"
The students took awhile to think and one of them exclaimed
"Because we lose our cool! That's why we have to shout."
The professor then asked again
"But why do you still shout when the person's just besides you? Why can't you speak softer? Why insist on shouting?"
The students were stumped for an answer and none of them could give a reply.
The professor then explained
"Because when two people are angry, the distance in their hearts grow further. And to cover up the distance, they shout to enable the other person to hear them. But the more you shout, the angrier you get. The angrier you get, the further the distance becomes and the louder you shout."
The professor continued
"How about two people in love? The opposite happens. Not only do they not shout, they speak very softly to each other. Why? Because their hearts are so close to each other that the distance is almost non-existant. That's why people in love whisper to each other. As the love grows, the distance becomes so close until words are no longer needed. A simple eye contact or body language can convey messages."
The conclusion ?
When two people are quarelling, do not allow the distance between yr hearts to grow any further. Even more so do not say anything that would let the distance grow. Wait for a few days, let the distance between yr hearts grow closer and slowly talk it out.
Pardon me for the inactivty for the past.... 2 months? Didn't have anything much to update and since yuting's the only one who reads my blog (from what i noe), she's pretty much updated with my life already.
Anyway, i've been feeling damn lazy recently. Might be due to the excessive going outs, ktvs, assignments and parties. For pple who noe me well, i'm pretty much a homely and laid back person. Meaning i stay at home most of the time during weekends to slack and watch the EPL at nite. Weekdays i go to camp and back. I do go out once in awhile if my friends ask me out, but not to the extent of it being every week. And I didn't have assignments to worry about then. Ever since the last ktv session last friday, i've been feeling damn lazy to go out already. I even decided not to play soccer the next day. Can u believe it ?? Darren's turning down the chance to play soccer !! This coming from a guy who rejected 2 free Pirates of the Carribean tickets so that he could play soccer with his friends.
Yea and there's another party this Sat (God!! dun they ever get enough of parties??) and all my friends are going. I'm not going though and no amount of persuasion can get me to change my mind.. I'm staying in this Sat to slack at home !!
Next week's the 1 week mid term break and my friends are planning to go camping. I agreed initially because well... it could be fun... But now i really dun feel like going.. But i'll still go lah, coz it's not everyday u get to camp in Australia and I've already spent $45 to buy my sleeping bag..
I'm coming back on the 10th of Nov.. If anyone reading my blog wants me to get anything for them please let me noe in msn... For pple who wants krispy kreme donuts, u'll have to get them at the airport from me because i have no space to store at home.. With the exception of yuting because.... well she noes me longer than u !! hahahaha
